May 2012
4 posts
Anonymous asked: This is actually not a question but just a comment I thought might help. I noticed a few posts back someone saying the thought of going down on a girl to them was "ew". I just wanted to pipe up and say that I thought the same thing when I identified as straight until I actually tried it. Turns out I'm better at that than blow jobs. It's also less tiring to me and I actually...
Anonymous asked: Hi! I'm currently a college student attending a very small university in rural upstate NY. It's very straight, very closeted, and I'm finding it very difficult because everyone else around me is hooking up and getting in relationships while I haven't done a single thing with anyone my whole time so far. There are a few gay men here, but, since they're still in the closet...
Anonymous asked: Hello. I'm pansexual, and I recently came out to my parents. It did not go well. I have been constantly ill for over two months. And, I've lost a lot of weight. I haven't been this tiny since my freshman year of high school (I'm 22). No one's ever looked at me with such disgust and hatred before, no one's ever said such horrible things to me. Let alone my parents....
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December 2011
1 post
March 2011
8 posts
ethereallychill asked: Do you think it's a good idea to have a gay room mate that you don't know when going to college? Because I am in this predicament of whether it would be weird and there would be some sort of awkward sexual tension when we finally met on the first day... Plus I've never been to college so it's all new to me...
Anonymous asked: Is it normal for lesbians to want to experiment with men? Kind of like bi-curious, just reversed?
Anonymous asked: Having recently come out as a lesbian I had my first lesbian relationship recently. We went out for 5 months. I'm femme and she was kinda butch but not overly butch. When we had sex she would only do stuff to me and didn't let me touch her or go down on her. She implied it was part of the whole "femme-butch" thing that the girly one generally just recieves. I didn't like...
Anonymous asked: I'm a lesbian and have been going out with a lovely girl and great friend of mine for a year and a half, but we're still both in the closet. The problem is that I'm tired of the closet and I want to at least tell my family that I'm homosexual, but she's not ready to come out, due to her less accepting parents. I know my family will be fine with me being lesbian (I think...
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December 2010
3 posts
toriworibori asked: When I was about fifteen or sixteen, I came out to my immediate family as bisexual. They weren't homophobic, but they weren't exactly accepting either. I got the 'it's a phase' 'you'll grow out of it' etc. reaction. Aside from one or two incidents, my sexuality was never brought up or discussed, as if I never said anything. I'm twenty now and I'm...
Anonymous asked: I'm homo-romantic asexual. My friend is queer. We're incredibly close, to the point where her mother calls us soul mates and we laugh and agree. (We’re both out to her parents.) Should I ask her out? I don't know if she likes me romantically and she goes to school quite a bit away but she knows me better than I know myself and she loves my despite my various insanities. I...
Anonymous asked: Hey,
so I am a 16 year old girl and I have never dated or kissed or done anything with either sex and I guess I always assumed I was straight, but never thought about the other sex. Recently I have felt more inclinations to women than to men. I feel equally about them sexually though. I don't really know what I am. yet. this is kind of a ramble. do you have any advice?
so I am a 16 year old girl and I have never dated or kissed or done anything with either sex and I guess I always assumed I was straight, but never thought about the other sex. Recently I have felt more inclinations to women than to men. I feel equally about them sexually though. I don't really know what I am. yet. this is kind of a ramble. do you have any advice?
November 2010
6 posts
Anonymous asked: Hello... this question is about one of my best friends.
It'll make more sense if you read some of his stuff first... so this is his tumblr: http://hopingforsomeromance.tumblr.com/ his latest post sums up a lot of the things he's been talking to me about for a good year or so now and I'm really scared for him. I try to let him know that I'm here for him, and his other...
It'll make more sense if you read some of his stuff first... so this is his tumblr: http://hopingforsomeromance.tumblr.com/ his latest post sums up a lot of the things he's been talking to me about for a good year or so now and I'm really scared for him. I try to let him know that I'm here for him, and his other...
oceansandwavesandwires-deactiva asked: first of all, i'll start by apologizing. i can't tell a short story. so on that note...i guess the basic question is how do i know if i'm gay or not? and even those aren't the right words. so, story time.
i was raised in a very open minded house hold. my mom always told me that she didn't care who i ended up with, as long as i was happy. hell, she's...
i was raised in a very open minded house hold. my mom always told me that she didn't care who i ended up with, as long as i was happy. hell, she's...
Anonymous asked: hey im 17 and was never really into boys or dating or anything i just wasnt bothered about it but there was this girl in my class who just always made my day and i loved spending time an all with her i never guessed her to be gay an always just thought of her as a friend but sometimes id find myself wishing she was more than that. but she came out as being gay and then my feelings for her went a...
Anonymous asked: I'm genderqueer, and while I spend most of the time dressed as my biological gender (female), I'd like to be able to pass as a guy sometimes. Dress and posture aren't a problem, but my voice is a dead give-away. Nearly everything I can find on this is geared towards transmen and just says to use testosterone, which naturally I don't want to do considering the relative risks and...
shannon--marie asked: Why is it that no matter how my relationships end, I lose people who are important to me? they just never talk to me again. And the only one I want back as a friend kind of acts like I don't exist half the time? and when we are together she acts like we did when we are together.
Anonymous asked: I'm a biological female and only recently started to identify as a boi. Is it wrong to not mind being referred to with feminine pronouns? I think of myself as a young boy but I don't dislike being thought of as female or think me being female is "wrong". I just prefer being thought of as a boi. I'm new to the whole scene so... am I doing something wrong? Is there some...
October 2010
10 posts
Anonymous asked: I am straight, but with strong ties and relationships in the different queer communities, My trouble that I need advice on comes with a little background- I am extremely affectionate and physical meaning that I give hugs freely, however, I am under constant accusation (usually in the form of jokes) that I am in the closet and all of my friends expect me to come out, or they think I am Lying to...
Anonymous asked: So, my friend just kissed the guy I like in front of me. The guy was surprised. It was unexpected really. I hated my friend ever since. Anyway, I was wondering how I could get through this guy. I mean we belong to a school organization where I'm technically the President now and he's a member. So, yeah. We talk about stuff. But I'm wanting more of a closer friend type of thing, if...
Anonymous asked: okay, so i recently came out to my mother as a lesbian. it's all going well and she accepted me and everything, but i'm having a bit of a problem. i think i'm a different kind of gay. i'm attracted to gay women and men. but when i see guys, i think of how hot and sexy and cute it would be if they called me their boyfriend, not girlfriend. i don't know how to explain it...
Anonymous asked: I've started to wonder if I'm a transguy...
See, I've just left a small, conservative town to go to school in NYC, so I've been more exposed to different sexualities and genders and all that. And it's got me wondering. When I was little, like 4 years old, I thought that I was a boy. People would ask me if I was a boy or girl to get a laugh, and I'd always...
See, I've just left a small, conservative town to go to school in NYC, so I've been more exposed to different sexualities and genders and all that. And it's got me wondering. When I was little, like 4 years old, I thought that I was a boy. People would ask me if I was a boy or girl to get a laugh, and I'd always...
Anonymous asked: So I am gay. I have been out for about a year now, but I have known I was gay forever. It was hard coming out, but not long after I met a guy, and we have been together for a while now. My only problem is I am not sure if I am ready to perform sexual conduct. I am scared. I have never done anything with a guy before (not trying to be graphic) like oral, or anal, and I am not sure if I am even...
mimidear asked: Hello :) I'm not going to go on anon because it's okay.
Well, I've had 2 boyfriends and I felt.. not complete with them. Like something was missing in our relationship. I didn't go all the way because I just.. don't really enjoy penis when we would start trying stuff. Then I started talking to this.. really amazing girl and I was certain she was the one that would...
Well, I've had 2 boyfriends and I felt.. not complete with them. Like something was missing in our relationship. I didn't go all the way because I just.. don't really enjoy penis when we would start trying stuff. Then I started talking to this.. really amazing girl and I was certain she was the one that would...
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sarimia replied to your post: I’m thinking about making a GSA at my highschool, because even though my school is really small, I know we have a pretty decent LGBT+ population. My only issue is that I don’t actually know what goes on at a GSA meeting! I know the basic premise of a GSA and what its intended purpose is, but I’m having a seriously hard time envisioning what one actually does...
Anonymous asked: Hi! I was wonderin' if there are ways to tell If someone is gay. I have a strong gaydar but sometimes it really doesn't work right. I'm the type that usually wants to be sure before I fall for someone.
Anonymous asked: if you really really liked somebody, but you weren't sure if they were straight or gay, how would you try and figure out what sexual orientation they were? see, i've been crushing hard on this person, but i can't for the life of me figure out if their straight or gay, and i can't figure out how the best way to find out, my conclusion is to either just go up and ask them (which...
Anonymous asked: I'm thinking about making a GSA at my highschool, because even though my school is really small, I know we have a pretty decent LGBT+ population. My only issue is that I don't actually know what goes on at a GSA meeting! I know the basic premise of a GSA and what its intended purpose is, but I'm having a seriously hard time envisioning what one actually does during a GSA meeting. I...
September 2010
12 posts
Anonymous asked: I have a very good friend that lives quite far from me. She is gay and just got out of a complicated relationship a couple of months back. She says she's ready to move on now, but she still has some feelings towards her ex. Now, I and her have been talking for a few months also and I really like her. I think I should wait and just be a good friend for now, but I know breakups are hard, so...
Anonymous asked: Okay, so I am straight. But sometimes I am into the idea of like hooking up with girls. Sometimes I am attracted to women. I wouldn't really want to go out with a girl ever, but I like the idea of being intimate with one. Does this mean I am Bi- sexual? Or Bi- Curious? I don't get it. I have never been with a girl before, but I know I want to try, and see what it is like.
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iliveforthefame-deactivated2010 asked: So. I'm lesbian.
but, about half a year ago, I was still convinced that I liked boys, so I was out as a bisexual. Everybody always said that I was only bi for attention, but now that I have realized that I'm LESBIAN. I don't like boys. I don't like penises, I wont ever, and now that I've been with my girlfriend for almost five months, and I love her more than...
but, about half a year ago, I was still convinced that I liked boys, so I was out as a bisexual. Everybody always said that I was only bi for attention, but now that I have realized that I'm LESBIAN. I don't like boys. I don't like penises, I wont ever, and now that I've been with my girlfriend for almost five months, and I love her more than...
Anonymous asked: Well... I'm pretty much of a lipstick. I'm immensely more attracted to women than to men, but I get much attention from the guys (they never ever get it).
The thing is... I like to flirt. A lot. And though the thought of doing anything further feels quite strange (a bit like the idea of eating while doing a handstand), I don't stop. I feel guilty for leading these guys on,...
The thing is... I like to flirt. A lot. And though the thought of doing anything further feels quite strange (a bit like the idea of eating while doing a handstand), I don't stop. I feel guilty for leading these guys on,...
Here's a question guys,
As we have 4 different people running this blog and answering your question what would you prefer:
should we submit the answers as soon as they’re written even if the post is incomplete (and then whoever has yet to reply would edit the post and add their answer) or should we refrain from posting until all the answers are in place?
Send us suggestions!
Anonymous asked: I like wearing boys clothes, but don't wanna be a boy. does this make me weird or..?
HEY GUYS. We all think that you should tell us a...
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Introducing: Jose.
Ronna: So guess what, we have a new kid on the block. Joseph. JOSE. But not "Hosayyy" apparently (ever noticed that rhymes with gay?). Jose say hi.
Jose: Oh HELLO
Ronna: Jose tell them something. (I ran out of orange juice halfway through my dinner, god fucking damn it).
Jose: URM, I know someone with the last name "Cockram"
Ronna: I'm sure they'll be happy you're taking it public. Why are all sexual act or sexual parts names animal related? Pussy, cock, puppies... ew I hate that one
Jose: PUPPIES?!
Ronna: You know, like, tits.
Jose: Urm... Thats a new one.
Ronna: Dude you know what, you know how guys name their penis
Jose: yesss
Ronna: I ALWAYS wanted to do that but somehow naming my tits doesn't seem quite enough. Maybe I should name my vajoo
Jose: Call it brian. Or BRAIN, irony
Ronna: I kinda want to name it Rick
Jose: No, rick makes me think of weird spanish fat boys
Ronna: You're sick. Rick isn't even a spanish name! Ricardo. I'm not calling my cunt Ricardo
Jose: But it's short for ricardo!
Ronna: No Ricardo is Richard and short for Richard is Dick. I'm not calling my vagina "Dick"
Jose: You trying to tell me something here?
Ronna: Shut up.
Jose: ;) you bloke you.
Ronna: You know what the day I moved back in with Yusef, within the first 5 minutes after dinner he first called me butch, then when I showed him my heels to prove a point he asked if I want to go shopping with him since he can hear this plea to go femme in my words, and then he went, "Are you having a sex change Ronna? I don't want to hear you're having a sex change tonight"
Jose: Well, you know, WE WON'T DISOWN YOU
Ronna: Zip it, I am perfectly happy with a vagina and strap-ons are enough to satisfy my curiosity towards genderfucking. But I do wanna try drag. Dwayne told me I'd make a good drag king. I'm not sure what he was trying to say...
Jose: Hmmmm... I have nothing else to say. APART from the fact i found a pretty real looking strap on. IT VIBRATES
Ronna: Did you find it in your father's underwear drawer? One of them hollow ones?
Jose: it is one of them, but no funnily enough, that isn't where I found it
Ronna: ^o) Right let's finish here. There might be preteens stumbling on this website. And then their parents are gonna sue yo' ass
Jose: hah
Anonymous asked: My best friend and I have a very close relationship. I'm gay and she's straight. I'm in love with her. Sometimes I think she might feel the same way... but she's adamant she's straight. But I feel like she leads me on a bit. Should I try to get over it? Or tell her and risk ruining the amazing friendship that we have?
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